Containing Time

Have you heard of the “Container Concept” (by Dana K. White)?
The idea is super basic: every space is a container. The point is to contain, so once it’s full, it’s full. If you have a shelf full of mugs and get a new mug, you either need to get rid of some mugs or give up a different shelf to make space for mugs because the container needs to contain the mugs. (whew. that was a really long sentence to explain a basic concept.)

It’s not about finding more or better storage spaces.
It’s about recognizing limits.

Recently, I started thinking about time as a container as well.

I’ve always understood a broad version of this, like: “there are only 24 hours in a day.” But I’m learning to see time as a series of small vessels. And some things, no matter how good or beautiful, just don’t fit in my vessels.

Last year, I timed how long it takes me to make my bed: 1 minute, 30 seconds.
Once I knew I could play Dolly Parton’s classic “9-5” and be done before the second chorus started, I was much more likely to make the bed in the mornings.

But here’s the part that surprised me: that 90 seconds became a kind of vessel, too.

When I changed to my summer bedding recently, I added a few pillows from other rooms. Almost immediately, I stopped making the bed. It vaguely felt like too much – even though the new layout probably only added a few seconds. I hadn’t re-timed it. And in the absence of knowing, my brain defaulted to “not enough time.”

So I went back. Simplified. Re-timed it, and fit the routine back into its original 90 second container.

Inspired, I started noticing other time-containers.

I have a lot of plants. Like… a llllooootttt. And I recently inherited even more.
I knew I spent time on Saturdays taking care of them, but had never grouped the whole routine together or timed it.

So I did. I decided ahead that I was willing to give one hour per weekend to plant care. I set a timer and (mostly) focused on the plants.

After an hour, I still had several left unwatered.

But an hour was my vessel. Even if every plant had a home (okay, most of them), I wasn’t willing to cut other things from my life to give more time to their care.

So at a recent party, I gathered a few plants I was ready to part with and offered them as “party favors.”

Seeing time as a container has helped me see how I use my time more clearly and set limits more effectively. It’s not always about cutting back – knowing I set aside an hour to take a bath allows my brain to settle in, linger and relax.

Sometimes it’s about measuring what actually fits – and noticing when something has outgrown its container. There’s still only 24 hours in my day. But seeing the little containers within those hours helps me be more mindful of what I’m filling them with.

Side Quests and Signal Flares

When I feel stressed I like to reorganize my closets.

Especially my master bedroom closet.

Weird? Maybe. Pointless? definitely not.

It can be a helpful process.

I can feel accomplished at the end. Like a good painting project, I can look at my room at the end and say, “I did that.”

But in order to say “I did that” – it needs to actually get done. 

I have a tendency to embark on projects with uncontained enthusiasm. I start strong, either motivated by a goal (“Today’s the day I get this basement ‘organized’”) or motivated by an emotion (any stress or rage cleaners out here?)

Orrrr

I start on a project because in the moment it seems like an absolutely necessary side quest from the path I’m on. Like, I’m getting dressed but can only find one of this earring set? Why wouldn’t I dump out every piece of jewelry I own and start reorganizing the whole system until I am sitting on the floor half dressed, surrounded by 30 carefully sorted piles of jewelry, completely out of energy, and 17 searches deep on the Best Jewelry Storage Systems on TikTok and Amazon?

Actually, that’s the path most of my projects tend to take. Big energy start, a swirl through overthinking and distraction, then an overwhelming crash that leaves me with a bigger mess than I started with.

Not exactly a remedy for stress and uncertainty. 

And when I’m stressed, I like to reorganize my closets. Notice a pattern?

Stress leads to action, which feels productive – until it spirals. I want to feel in control, so I dive into something I can control. But then the thing I thought would soothe me ends up adding to the chaos.

I’m learning the urge to reorganize is a flag – a signal that something inside me is asking for attention, for care, for clarity.

Lately, I’ve been trying to pause when I feel this signal flare. Instead of pushing through, I’ll ask myself: “What did I really need when I started this?” 

Sometimes it’s control. Sometimes it’s rest. Sometimes it’s just a sense of forward motion.

And sometimes it’s a better system for managing my bedroom closet. And that’s ok, too.

(check out pictures of my latest bedroom closet side quest on Instagram)